A spotlight on a Squidoo lens from the Boshemia's Bohemia world.
Parenting will always come with its own myriad of troubles, worries, and dilemmas, but when the other parent becomes "the ex" and the children are split between two homes, a whole new layer of complication comes into play.
No matter what, the children are always the greatest priority, and they deserve to have a happy, healthy home to grow up in. How do you maintain that once the home has become divided?
Read the Fairly Goth Mother's take on coparenting here.
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Sunday, November 6, 2011
We Need to Teach Our Daughters... (And Our Sons)
"We need to teach our daughters to distinguish between a man who flatters her-and a man who compliments her.
A man who spends money on her-and a man who invests in her.
A man who views her as property-and a man who views her properly.
A man who lusts after her-and a man who loves her.
A man who believes he is God's gift to women-and a man who remembers a woman was God's gift to man.
And then teach our boys to be that kind of a man."
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